Eric T. Maray / How I Think

How I Think

Curiosity, connection, and the way I make sense of the world.

Philosophy

Three pillars.

What I keep coming back to.

Autodidact · Strategic Thinker & Doer · Understanding People, Connecting Ideas & Navigating Complexity

I’ve never been particularly good at staying in one intellectual lane. Something catches my attention, I start asking questions, and before long I’m exploring a subject I barely knew existed. I’m an autodidact by nature: learning doesn’t require an invitation, and curiosity rarely follows a straight line. These three pillars give that curiosity a sense of direction.

I · Servitium

Selfless Service

I try to look beyond my own perspective and consider what others need, experience, and carry with them. To me, selfless service begins with paying attention: listening carefully, treating people with dignity, and recognizing that my understanding is always incomplete.

II · Curiositas

Behavioral Curiosity

People fascinate me. How we think, what motivates us, why we interpret the same moment differently, and how our experiences shape our decisions. I ask questions because understanding someone is more interesting—and more useful—than assuming I already know their reasons.

III · Ratio

Systems Thinking

I instinctively look for relationships between things. A question leads to another question; a pattern in one subject echoes in another. I’m drawn to context, causes, tradeoffs, and unintended consequences—the pieces that turn a complicated situation into something I can begin to understand.

The throughline

Think. Try. Learn.

Connecting ideas is interesting. Testing them is better.

I like stepping back far enough to see the larger picture, then getting close enough to understand the details. Sometimes that means researching something unfamiliar. Sometimes it means having a conversation, sketching an idea, or making something just to see whether it works.

I’m comfortable holding more than one explanation at a time. Complexity doesn’t always need an immediate answer; sometimes it needs better questions. But I don’t want to get stuck admiring a problem from a distance. Thinking and doing inform each other, and the act of trying often reveals what thinking alone cannot.

That’s how these pillars connect for me: service keeps people in view, curiosity invites new perspectives, and systems thinking helps me see how the pieces fit together. None of them is a finished destination. They’re ways of staying open to what I haven’t learned yet.

I don’t expect to understand everything. I just don’t intend to stop trying.

— Stat fortis super tribus —
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